Brain Anatomy 101: How to Cope with Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
- Melisa D Halley

- Aug 28, 2023
- 2 min read
At the age of 15, I was diagnosed with post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). PTSD is a psychiatric condition that can develop after experiencing or witnessing a traumatic event, such as severe physical injury, sexual violence, war, terrorism, or other life-threatening situations.
Common symptoms of PTSD include:
Re-experiencing
This can involve nightmares, flashbacks (feeling as if the traumatic event is happening again), or intrusive and distressing thoughts about the event.
Avoidance
People with PTSD may avoid places, people, or activities that remind them of the trauma. They may also feel emotionally distant or disconnected from others.
Negative changes in thoughts and mood
This can show up as persistent negative emotions such as guilt or shame, feeling detached from others, or difficulty experiencing positive emotions. It may also include memory problems, especially difficulty recalling important aspects of the trauma.
Increased arousal
This includes irritability, sleep problems, difficulty concentrating, or being easily startled.
I experienced all of these symptoms (except anger outbursts).
How to Cope with PTSD
Addressing PTSD often requires a combination of professional support, personal coping strategies, and a strong support system. I resisted professional help for a long time, until I realized I could not overcome it on my own. That was a turning point.
Below are the strategies that helped me most:
Seek professional help
Working with a therapist or psychologist experienced in trauma is essential. Evidence-based treatments such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) are highly effective. I have personally gone through both, and they helped me significantly.
Educate yourself
Understanding PTSD helps you recognize your symptoms and gives you tools to manage them. Awareness reduces confusion and gives you more control.
Give yourself time
Healing from trauma is not linear. Allow yourself to grieve what was lost or changed. Be patient with yourself and recognize small steps forward.
Build structure and a healthy lifestyle
Routine creates safety. Try to wake up, eat, and sleep at consistent times. Avoid excessive caffeine, alcohol, and drugs—these may seem like coping tools but often worsen symptoms in the long term.
Avoid isolation and seek support
Talk to trusted friends or family. For me, support groups were especially powerful—being around people who truly understand your experience removes a layer of isolation that is hard to describe.
Stay physically active
Exercise helps regulate stress hormones and improves mood. Movement is one of the most underrated tools in recovery.
Use relaxation techniques
Deep breathing, meditation, progressive muscle relaxation, and even music therapy can help calm your nervous system.
Set boundaries
Protect your energy. Take time for yourself when needed and learn to say “no” without guilt.
Express your experience
Creative expression—writing, drawing, music—can help process emotions that are hard to verbalize. For me, this was a crucial part of healing.
Identify and manage triggers
Learn what situations, people, or environments trigger your symptoms. This allows you to either avoid them when necessary or develop strategies to face them gradually and safely.
Stay hopeful
Recovery looks different for everyone. What works for one person may not work for another. Stay connected to yourself, stay patient, and seek support when needed. Healing is possible—even when it doesn’t feel like it.
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